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There is not much to tell. I grew up in Southern California during the 70s. I always liked the look of girls cloths and wanted to be able to dress in thier styles. At the time I knew I wasn't gay but just liked the way the girls dressed.
at the time I thought I was the only one with this desire.
I started buying shoes because they were easy to hide in the trunk of my car.Very rarely I would "borrow" some of my sisters cloths.
in 1980 I moved to Las Vegas. I continued to buy shoes until I got married in 1986. Well the long and short of it is I didn't tell my wife about my CDing , it just kind of came out. needless to say she was not thrilled with it.
We had a good and normal relationship along with 2 children but she was never comfortable with my dressing which was mainly androgynous (and still is). most of the time she just made a comment and looked the other way.Things came to a head in 2001 when after living with this for years and not really understanding what was going on, I allowed her to tell a friend about my dressing. This seemed to help the situation since her friend told her it was no big deal.also some people from the TG chatroom were very helpful.She just felt that she was alone and had no one to talk to. This seemed to change things, I have never completely dressed until the week of Jan 1 2002. most of my outings were in jeans and heels. She helped me pick out a wig, do makeup and shoot some pictures. In exchange Ive given her a couple days a week were Leigh doesn't come to visit.I love my wife and children very much and thank them for understanding
as to my future, I would like to attend a TG function dressed ,more pictures(lots)and develope Leighs personality (I suppose this is already there..just needs to be brought out.
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